Dads: Real life Superhero’s

Parents have a fundamental role in developing the framework created to support children’s learning and development. Without parents or guardians, children would have limited direction and influence in how they understand and experience the world.

When referring to parents, many would identify the primary parent or guardian as the mother; nonetheless, the role a father plays in enhancing and guiding a child’s development should not be underestimated. Dads provide a unique role and perspective which can be different but also quite refreshing depending on the lens you are looking through.

Dads can have a profound and long-lasting impact on all areas of a child’s life and in many cases they’re the first person children would identify as a superhero.

When you think of Dads playing with their children some would automatically think of rough and tumble or taking them to the park to play football; while these activities may get overlooked, they are extremely important in how a child’s view of the world is created. Rough and tumble supports children’s physical learning by developing motor skills, co-ordination, and strength. But there are other skills which are developed which usually get overlooked such as learning boundaries, spatial and building resilience. This shows that not only does it impact physical development but also has a direct link on their social-emotional and cognitive development.

When I think of my Dad, words can’t describe the impact he has had on my life, From building obstacle courses and jumping off sofas as a child to encouraging me to step out of my comfort zone and strive to be my best self. I’ve taken comfort in knowing that he’ll always catch me if I fall.

Dads encourage independence and self-reliance while still acting as a nurturing care provider. In many circumstances dads are seen to engage in riskier, thrill-seeking activities, which in turn encourages children and provides a platform that allows them to make mistakes and learn from them in a safe and controlled environment helping them to gain confidence in their abilities. This supports problem-solving and critical thinking skills. My Dad is the biggest risk taker I know! But without being exposed to that from an early age, I never would have taken the leap of faith to start my own business.

While both parents may have similar styles of parenting, dads can provide a differing male perspective to parenthood in areas such as discipline, love, communication, and many other areas, all of which are valuable contribution to a child’s life. 

It’s evident that the role of a dad is so important and while play can be viewed as juvenile, playing with your child can instil so many different skills and characteristics which they carry with them through life. The bond a child has with their Dad is unique and is just as special as the bond they develop with their mum.

The relationship I have with my mum is special, but when I think about the experiences I’ve shared with my Dad and the skills he has helped me develop throughout my journey of life (and is still building on today) I am truly grateful.  

So, to all the father’s (and father figures) … Thank you!